TV personality, Shade Ladipo un-invitedly wades into the marital crisis of Tinsel stars and media personalities, Gbenro Ajibade's and Osas Ighodaro. This comes days after Gbenro took to Instagram to call out his wife, Osas for abandoning their daughter at home for clubbing, only to return home the next day.
Therefore, without invitation for her advice, Shade goes into their home to take side, blaming Osas for marrying wrong man. Equally warning women never to marry down by settling for men who will feel threatened by their success. See her full post below…
I’m pained when I see amazing, hardworking and determined women try to be put down by Society, Culture and then by Family
Family in this case is your spouse.
Pls do not put yourself under any undue pressure to get married and then end up with a loser who will be threatened every time you breathe
Your calling is great and the man you marry must be able to take it and run with it
You need a man who understands that he must be your champion on and off the field
A man who is ready to be in the shadows so you can shine
Most women are ready to do this for their men so My dear pls don’t for 1 second think you don’t deserve such…
Also pls let me debunk the lies ....
The man who will love you and worship you is waiting for you, don’t allow anyone fool you into believing that your Age or Stage will reduce those chances
Cock & Bull…
Your chances are as high as YOU want them
Your self confidence and Self love will attract exactly the kind of man you deserve
There is no Marriage O’Clock and if pikin is your worry then Freeze your eggs or Adopt
Your happiness and Peace should always be Number 1:
Don’t settle for anything less
Don’t Marry Down
Don’t Marry Up
Marry your Partner
Someone who sees you
Someone who accepts you
Someone who wants you to do better than him
Someone who loves you more than himself.
I always felt Osas was Marrying Down and from that illiterate rant, I was right.”